Tyler…

The Brutal Truth Of How I Went From A Life Of Mind-Crippling “Scarcity” To Limitless “Abundance

FROM:  TYLER

Well, it’s my turn to tell my story of personal transformation today and I’m left thinking about what I want people to know about me that I haven’t spoken about already.

As most of you guys know, I got into the whole “Success With Women” gig back when I was 22 years old…

I’d been dumped by my first and only girlfriend at the age of 20 for the guy who worked at the “Pita Pit” (yes… the Pita Pit), and I went through an emotional break-down that resulted in my nearly flunking out of school in my second year of college.

It’s funny, because talking about it right now it feels like I’m telling somebody *elses* story… not mine.

But the fact of that matter is that back in 2000-2001 I spent six long months alternating between sleeping 18-20 hours a day and then staying awake for days at a time playing videogames because I was in such a broken mind-state that I couldn’t cope with my day-to-day life.

Imagine waking up and instantly feeling this thick, tangible black cloud of emotions…

It was like a cocktail of total hopelessness and depression, and then high-strung anxiety with a total inability to focus because your thoughts are in a constant tail-spin.

I used to wonder “Will I ever be normal again??  When is this feeling going to go away??”

Now of course, when I say it was “Six months…” that I was emotionally incapacitated, I’m talking about *total* incapacitation where I didn’t even have the ability to have a conversation where I could hold eye contact or not sink back into my head.

It was actually about 18-24 months however that it took me to get back to normal again, and my “normal” wasn’t really all that great to begin with.

Of course, my life only got more difficult from there…

The terrible marks I was getting in school basically nixed out my dream of becoming a PHD and Professor in my passion of Philosophy, and this caused me to become more and more angry at myself because I’d blown what I thought was my ticket in life.

As one aspect of my life fell apart, all the other aspects started to fall apart in a “chain-reaction” that seemed to never end.

Ultimately, in hitting “rock bottom” I realized that I had to re-evaluate my priorities in life and who it was that I’d become.

The most important thing I had to admit to myself was this…

My then 19 year old girlfriend – she was well within her bounds to break up with me at the time, given that most couples at 19 don’t stay together for the rest of their lives anyway.

It was really *me* who was the problem, and the total emotional breakdown I experienced was in fact a more important sign that exposed a “larger shortcoming” in my self-esteem.

I eventually started to come out of my haze and managed to implement a very constructive habit of approaching 5 girls a day.

This wasn’t because I thought I’d eventually get “skills with women” (I didn’t know it was possible) but just because I had *zero friends* and *zero social circle*, and common-sense dictated it was my only way of eventually meeting a new girl and not being alone for the rest of my life.

I was extremely uncomfortable to walk anywhere within a 100 yards of a bar or club at that time, so I used to walk around the mall or campus library for hours on end just trying to work up the nerve to try and talk to somebody.

Over the next 12 months I went from finding it brutally tough to maintain eye-contact or think straight around women to being able to maintain about a 3-5 minute conversation.

I also made a few friends through my classes at school (just by being as upbeat as possible, even though I didn’t feel that way at the time) and was able to *finally* find a bit of success with women.

The real breakthrough for me was when I started looking for resources on the internet and found all sorts of cool “How To Get Girls” resources and forums, just like you’re doing as you read this right now.

Although the information you’d find on them back then was pretty ridiculous, it gave me a “magic penny” to start carrying myself with more and more confidence and eventually to get a higher level of success.

At the time I still really just wanted to get a girlfriend, and invariably every time that I’d hook up with a girl I’d get all needy and desperate and alienate her until she wouldn’t return my phone calls.

This was pretty painful, but in hindsight it was the absolute best thing that ever could have happened to me because it *forced* me to keep working on improving myself.

I eventually made a personal pact that I’d become a guy who actually didn’t want a girlfriend anymore, and that I’d simply enjoy being “single” and “date around” until I was so confident with myself and with women that it was no longer an issue.

Obviously that was partly because I knew I’d probably blow it with whatever girl I got regardless, but it was also because I’d been through a lot of emotional pain and if I wanted any “lasting change” it would call upon me to keep working at this until everything was sorted out.

Anyway, I kept working on improving myself and made it my singular focus.  It was crazy how everything else in my life just seemed to fade away and become unimportant, and I felt like this was the most important thing that I had ever done for myself.

I always felt like another massive emotional-meltdown could be boiling just beneath the surface (it wasn’t as far behind me as it is now), so I kept working on every aspect of who I was – from my personality, to my skill-set, to my sense of identity and inner-self.

The big breakthrough for me was when I met my friend Nick (AKA “Papa”) and started going out and working on our “Self Improvement Odyssey” as a team.

Papa’s big plan back then was to travel the world and learn from all the best people we knew about through the internet, and on a life-changing trip along the 401 highway from Toronto to Montreal he twisted my arm for 5 hours until I was absolutely convinced.

As a small-town Canadian kid I can tell you it was the craziest thing for me to be flying to places like San Diego or New York or Los Angeles and crashing on the floors and couches of whoever would host me.

Luckily I had developed a decent amount of skill with women at the time (something that people obviously wanted to learn from), so there were always people wanted to put me up.

Eventually Papa and I hooked up with a mentor who used to run small underground workshops on how to meet women.

We started helping him out with the workshops and eventually we all made a plan to do a summer cross-country tour.  Papa and I were so psyched, and while we weren’t making any money from it we just wanted to be a part of the workshops and keep improving ourselves.

Papa and I spent the entire spring filling up these programs, calling people non-stop and convincing them to give it a shot.

Finally after filling them all up, we get the craziest news…

Like many highly talented people, our mentor was a very emotional guy and had decided to stop teaching success with women and he’d only be doing two of the six programs we’d filled.

This left Papa and I in a really tricky position.  We weren’t willing to cancel the programs on all the people who we’d convinced to attend, but were we really skilled enough yet to teach the programs on our own??

We called all the people who’d signed up and told them that it would just be Papa and I and that it was their choice whether or not they still wanted to attend.

Many of the people decided to stay on board and we went out and taught them everything we knew.

I was about as nervous as you could possibly imagine, but I hid it pretty well and kept my cool and did my thing.  In hindsight, I think that it was the intense pressure at the time that permanently burned the hardcore work ethic I have now into my brain.

The programs turned out to be a ridiculous success…

They quickly became the hot new thing and we got such over-the-top incredible reviews that everyone and their brother suddenly wanted to get a piece of the “upgraded lifestyle” for themselves.

(This later became the seed of a lot of well-publicized drama when our old mentor decided to come back into teaching this stuff…  Fortunately most people are usually intrigued by drama and it only served to flood our programs with even more interest).

Anyway, as the years went on I went out I kept teaching programs every single weekend and practiced my own “skills with women” religiously.

I approached and dated new women every single day for over 3 years (people have dubbed it the “1000+ Day Challenge”) and dated every type of girl you could imagine, from your party-girl MySpace Princesses to your lawyer-chicks to your girl next door archetypes.

I’ve dated girls who I was head-over-heals in love with, girls that I blatantly hated (and who hated me) but had incredible sex with, girls that I spent an incredible brief moment of my life with, and now even a girl who I’ve spent my last three amazing years with.

All throughout that time I also worked continually to educate myself in every type of self-actualization and spiritually-enriching knowledge that I can get my hands on, and I’ve incorporated it into everything I do.

People have asked me for years now why I kept pushing myself this religiously.  What kept’s me going?  Where have I found my motivation?

For me, it’s been the simple fact that I take Real Social Dynamics very, very seriously (it’s my new “shot” at life) and I’ve always wanted it to be the very best that it could be.

Whenever I run a program I know that if I fail to produce a bona fide “transformation” and “life-altering change” in the person I work with that he might go back to living in a stifling black cloud like I used to be in.

As funny as it might sound, I feel a passion and urgency for what I do that a lot of people might think is blown out of proportion because they really can’t relate to where I’m coming from.

Anyway, over the years I’ve had to keep myself constantly challenged and one of the ways that I’ve done that is take my “success with women” job to a higher level.

My own skills with women have been about as sharp as they could possibly be for several years now, but what’s kept me super-motivated has been developing better and better systems of teaching other people to do the things that I’m able to do.

The art and science of teaching the RSD programs has been like this constantly evolving puzzle for me, and every weekend I go into teaching programs with the mindset of “How incredibly good can I get this guy to become in the next three days??”

I’m constantly trying to break my own records, and at this point there’s barely a single thing I do in the same way in terms of teaching that I was doing 5 years ago.

In the past two years I’ve been able to get the results of the people I work with to unprecedented higher levels.

I’ve been able to accomplish this by changing the focus of what I teach from “Show them how it’s done on the surface and then give feedback” to an intense curriculum of hardcore “Deep, Identity Level Change” that brings about the most incredible transformations you’ve ever seen.

I love the sense of personal-power and self-esteem that I get when I walk home at the end of teaching a program, and I just sit there and think about the transformation that I’ve produced in the people I worked with.

Again, it might sound funny to you but I feel like it’s a higher level feeling of deep contentment and relaxation than I could get in any other way because I *created* it and it is *real*.

Anyway, my latest project that I’m the most exicted about is release of “Transformations”.

It’s a program in which I’ve laid out one of the most awe-inspiring dating-skills “reality-checks” that I could have ever offered.

I mean, this is a program that will rock you to your very core.

This is very different from a “Bootcamp” or any other type of experience, because all the step-by-step “plateau-breaking” methodologies to cut years from your learning curve and get explosive gains with women are being laid out to you in vivid, meticulous detail.

It’s really “got it all…”

In a year’s time, there is no doubt in my mind that when you talk to the most skilled, lifestyle-upgraded superstars in this community… they will reference “Transformations” as being one of the core catalysts of their success.

In “Transformations” I’ve offered you my very best.  I’ve really come clean on a lot of issues that I know will produce real increase in your life, and it’s the most personal program that I’ve ever done.

If you take your success with women seriously, you *need* to get yourself a copy of this program.

Here is a sampling of what to expect…

 

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